20 Free Mommy and Me Knit and Crochet Patterns

With Mother’s Day coming up, it’s the perfect time to make matching patterns that a mother and child can wear! Plus, for kids who like to mother their dolls, there are some options too! These twenty free mommy and me knit and crochet patterns are versatile, interesting, and fun. Plus, of course, you can always make the child size or the mom size alone if you’re not ready to make a set.

What Is a Mommy and Me Knit or Crochet Pattern?

All of these patterns have sizes that fit an adult woman and a child! Some of the sizes are within the same pattern, while a few have separate patterns for the coordinating pieces. The idea of a mommy and me pattern is that “mom” can wear one size and the child or children can wear a piece that matches. Use the same colors for an extra-matching look!

Mommy and me knit and crochet patterns make the child feel special. They get to dress up like Mom. If you gift them to someone, you celebrate their bond. And you can think outside of the box when it comes to who is “mommy” and “child.” For example, make a mommy pattern for grandma and matching child patterns as your Mother’s Day gift to your own mom. These sets also make great charity donations to places such as domestic violence shelters.

15 Free Mommy and Me Knit and Crochet Patterns

Here are fifteen of my favorite assorted mommy and me knit and crochet patterns. There are some really cute accessories. Find hats, mitts, cowls, and slippers. There are also some great garments like matching cardigans and pullovers.

1. Just Like Mom
2. One for Me One For You Knit Cardigan (adult and child)
3. Big Stitch Pullover (adult and child)
4. Cuddly Cables Cardigan (adult and child)
5. Casual Pullover (adult and child)
6. Mum and Me Crochet Bolero (child) and Shawl (adult)
7. Mom and Me Crochet Ponchos
8. Just Me and Mom Ponchos
9. Aprons for Mom and Me
10. Mom and Me Slippers
11. Mom and Daughter Love Mitts
12. Snowflake Hat and Mittens Set
13. Just Like Mom Cowl
14. Mommy and Me Messy Bun Hats
15. Mom and Me Bunny Scrubby Mitts

Dolly and Me Knit and Crochet Patterns

Kids who want to copy their parents now can! They’ll feel so grown up when their doll wears a sweater or poncho to match them. If you really want to get creative, make a mommy pattern that looks similar to one of the matching “dolly and me” patterns featured here:

1. Nordic Duo
2. Poncho for You and Me
3. Just Like Me Doll Shrug
4. Aran Look Set

Bonus: Kangaroo Pattern

Just like in the Winnie the Pooh books, kangaroos are a great example of mother-and-child from the animal kingdom. You and your child will love playing with this crocheted set together! Although it’s not a traditional “mommy and me” pattern, I think it’s such a fun twist on the concept. Plus it’s a versatile gift for all kinds of different occasions.

Also on the Blog

• Mother’s Day Yarn Project
• Mother’s Day Gift Ideas
• FREE Mother’s Day Patterns in Knit and Crochet

Frequently Asked Questions

What kinds of mommy-and-me knit and crochet projects are there?

Matching items for parent and child are SO adorable! Matching hat sets are the most classic… both in the same pattern and yarn but different sizes. Matching sweaters and cardigans scaled from adult to child. Matching mittens and fingerless mitts. Coordinating shawl/wrap for mom and a matching baby blanket. Matching boot cuffs for cold weather. Mommy-and-me accessories like headbands, cowls, and scarves. Even matching stuffed animals… one size for the child and a larger one for the parent. The joy of matching handmade pieces between generations is genuinely special.

How do I adjust a pattern to make a matching child version?

Most “mommy and me” patterns come with multiple sizes built in… they’re specifically designed with size scaling already done. If you’re adapting a single-size adult pattern to make a child version, you’ll need to scale down based on gauge and the child’s measurements. A hat for a toddler needs roughly 15 to 17 inches of circumference vs. 21 to 22 for an adult… so you need proportionally fewer stitches. For simpler items like scarves and blankets where fit matters less, scaling down is just a matter of fewer rows and stitches to the desired smaller size.

What ages do mommy-and-me patterns usually cover?

Most collections include baby/infant sizes through adult. Some specifically focus on toddler and child sizes (1-8 years) to match adult patterns. Teen sizes are sometimes included. The age range matters because the size jump between baby and adult is enormous… a baby hat is roughly half the circumference of an adult hat. For newborn gifts, matching newborn hat and mama hat or wrap is very popular. For older children, matching school-age-child and parent pieces feel more “we chose to match” which has its own special charm.

Do I need to buy two separate patterns for matching items?

Not with the 20 patterns in this collection! Mommy-and-me patterns are specifically designed with both sizes in the same pattern… you’re not modifying two separate patterns to try to make them coordinate. The sizing and design work is done for you. This makes matching projects much more accessible. You do need more yarn (both sizes use different amounts), but the pattern work is unified. This is one of the big advantages of purpose-designed mommy-and-me patterns over trying to scale patterns yourself.

Are matching handmade items popular as gifts for new parents?

They’re absolutely beloved! A matching hat set for a new mother and her baby is one of those gifts that photos happen with… matching is cute, handmade is special, and the connection between mom and baby is made visible in the matching pieces. For baby showers especially, a matching set stands out from the usual gift items. A bonus: making the adult size first gives you a chance to practice the pattern before you make the smaller (often fussier to size) baby version. Both pieces come out beautifully when you’ve warmed up on the bigger one!